So we wanted to talk about the costs of our adoption from Ethiopia, as that is one of the most often asked questions.
There was a funny story on Jon & Amy's blog that sums up the misunderstandings and interest the people have in the financial part of adoption:
Amy was asked, by a young neighbor girl, in front of other adult neighbors,
I thought this interaction was so cute - and so telling of the misconception out there with international adoption. Yes, it is expensive, but it's not in any way because you are "buying" a baby.
Girl: How much did you pay for your babies?
Amy: You know sweetie, people don’t pay for babies. You can’t put a price on kids.
Girl: I heard it’s lots of money.
Amy: We paid money for a service, for people to help us find Jada and Adia. Just like your Mommy paid a doctor so he would help her have you. Does that make sense?
Girl: Yeah…So, how much was it?
Of our expenses with our agency, Holt, the largest portion goes to the Ethiopian Program Fee which is basically paid to the orphanage in Ethiopia. They have staff to pay for, kids to feed, agency workers to complete paperwork and assist you while you're in country, etc. If these fees weren't being paid to the orphanages, they wouldn't be able to stay open, and thousands more kids worldwide would be living on the streets, or worse yet, wouldn't survive without proper care.
Here's a breakdown of how the fees work out for our adoption:
Paperwork Fees (homestudy, agency work, post-placement, etc.): approximately $5,000
Ethiopia In-Country Fee (Orphanage, in-country case workers, child care, etc.): appr. $10,000
Travel (Ethiopia requires TWO trips: airfare, hotels, food): appr. $10,000
Various Gov't Paperwork (i-600A immigration form, Visas, etc.): appr. $1,000
You can do it (and so can we)!
For those considering adoption - I will just say this: The Lord will provide for His causes. Don't let the finances discourage you from something so amazing as helping there be one less orphan in this world. We've talked to many people who have said that they would like to adopt, but the financial burden seems to big to handle - don't let money hold you back!
There are many things that you can do:
- There is an adoption tax credit from the government
- There are many organizations that do adoption grants
- Many people send out fund-raising letters (which we have chosen not to)
- Many people do fund raisers, bake sales, sell t-shirts, garage sales, etc. (we may do some of these)
- There are interest free loans available (typically used as a "hold over" until you receive the tax credit the next year)
Clearly, the adoption expenses are more than we can handle on our own. We decided early on that we didn't want to do fund-raising letters, even though we don't think there's anything wrong with taking that path.
But, we've had many people come up to us, completely unexpected, letting us know that they wanted to partner with us, and for that we are truly grateful and blessed. The generosity of our family, friends, and church family has been amazing! Thank you so much for your support!
Today, I'm mailing some paperwork to Lifesong for Orphans, a non-profit organization that awards matching grants to families in the adoption process (and has a special arrangement to do so with our church). A matching grant would mean that every dollar donated would be doubled (up to a certain amount) - which would be amazing. The other benefit of having a lifesong account is that any money that people donate now or in the future, will be made out to Lifesong (a 501c3 non-profit), therefore will be tax-deductible, but will 100% go to us for our adoption expenses. Anyone can set up an account like this at Lifesong and I think it's a great option for most people.
If you're considering adoption, just like we have been blessed by the support of friends and family, we know God will provide for you too. As always, feel free to contact Ashley or I if you would like more information!